bheka indlela yokulahla indoda futhi uphulukise ikati ukulinda ngaphambi kokuqala umshado

This is not a cliché answer - I'm not talking about the merits or value of marriage, nor what is the ideal age for guys to think about marrying. What I'm talking about is a complete blanket list of 15 types of girls that a guy should NEVER under any circumstance marry. You will only see pain and misery if you don't heed my advice. Do I talk from experience? Only partially, since I'm no pickup guru - but the evidence is everywhere.

Girls Want Attention, Women Want Respect.
Most girls want to get attention from guys, using their body and miniskirts to
attract them or trying to act like they are the center of attention.
Real women know what makes them attractive and the first thing they want from men is respect.

Girls Are Dependent, Women Are Not.
Girls always need help for everything, even for small stuff such as getting rid of a spider or little mouse. Mature women are the exact opposite. They know what they want and they know how to get it - without needing any help.